Hello everyone! I’m new to the group...been reading many posts. Happy to be among people who share the same experience, but it sure stinks that we have to have such a group.
Without going into too much detail, I wanted to pose a question to the group, both males and females, about whether they feel that feminism has had a part in their HD/LD imbalance. My W is a feminist and I think, by her words and actions, that sometimes she just hates men and thinks that sex is a violative act, and can never be truly consensual. As the H of such a feminist, I must say I’m probably one of the most feminism-supporting men you can find. If not, I get reamed. For example, while watching TV the other night, a Victoria’s Secret ad came on, and I made the mistake of uttering a sound like, “hmmmm.” She lectured me on the evils of the objectification of women for the next hour. Ever since then, whenever such an ad comes on, my face goes blank, or I leave the room to go get a drink or something.
That said, I wonder how many of the HD men here can empathize, and how many of the LD women (if there are any here) can explain this to me.
Oh, and for introductory purposes, I’m 42, the HD H, and my wife is 40 and ND or, at best LD. Two times in 2003...does that qualify for ND status?
