One part about our conversation that really did bother me was that when we started the conversation about moving out I said-
So when are you planning on leaving?
He said - I have decided that I can stay until Thanksgiving if you want.
(This was a change from our original plan, he said originally he would be leaving this weeek)
I said "I don't know if I can do that" I thought for a moment and then said "what do you want to do". He said "I want to move out next week." I said that's fine then, we will do that. Was this the right way to repsond or should I have had him wait until Thanksgiving?