LOL, well I usually did very un-fatherly things with her prior to tucking her in! I never fell short in that regard =O)
All kidding aside, thanks for your input. I think I'll try for the second approach first. Thinking back to the first stages of dating any girl including my wife, I think I may try to engage her through conversation about everything in her life aside from our situation of course. Just try to get her talking and sharing about herself. Girls love conversation and everyone loves talking about themselves. I'll just do the listening.
If I don't have any luck with that over the next month then I think it just might be time to drop the rope, go dark, and wait for her to show interest or file.
I really don't think I can do this any longer than a couple more months.
M: 29, W: 28 Together 8 years, Married 1 (5/16/09) Bomb (LYBNILWY)4/22/10 Affair discovered 5/3/10, began Jan/Feb 2010 Separated 5/22/10 - Present Affair exposed 7/7/10 No children