Yes, 6 weeks ago XH told me that he broke up with GF#2because she wanted to get M.
Last week he offered to get GF#2's fingerprints for me again. I asked how he would do that. He said he would be seeing her. I asked "Are you seeing her again?". He confirmed......the rest is the convo described above.
So XH actually brought up GF as the person who probably sent the anonymous package. He keeps wanting to throw her under the bus. He doesn't want to think BMF might have sent it.
I think XH was upset because he saw his reflection in the mirror for a moment and didn't like the way it made him feel.
..........BTW, I did my homework tonight. Bought a book titled "Superflirt". Cramming for TT tomorrow.