I am. There just isn't going to be any persueing on my part. I'm becoming the man I was, the man I should have always been. I have no problem being mysterious or GAL'ing. I'm going to be strong and confident during this process. Even the way I was just a week or two ago is different then how I am now. I want to be the man that I want to be, if that is the same one that she wants then so be it, if not then I'll live.