My wife seemed completely convinced she was doing the right thing by leaving me and burned a ton of bridges also.
7 months later I'm finding out she was never sure at any point that she was making the right decision.
There is no way she is going to admit that to you right now.
konfuseeed, How are you finding out about your Wife's confusion. Is she now talking to you. I have been going through this for 5 months.
At this stage i am on the verge of jumping ship and to be honest if I found someone I really wanted to date I would probably just go for it. I understand some people stay at this for a long time but for me life is too short.
I wont jump at the first chance of getting laid but also will not let something potentially nice slide by for the sake of staying faithful to someone who is constantly angry with me. If I saw some hesitation on her side it would cause me to pause but I see nothing but anger and determination to split permanently.
Although the ideal end result is to piece our M together I am not optimistic and am not going to bet my future on it.
