GAG, I probably haven't mentioned the surgery; just another part of my complicated life story!!! This is my 10th surgery in five years. This one is a preventative measure though so no real urgency. I haven't booked it yet......have to see the surgeon again first but work and uni has been so crazy I haven't had a minute to plan it all.

H just sent me a message to see if the accountant had done my tax yet. I said no and asked why he wanted to know and he said cos his was also lodged but not yet done. Don't know if it was a genuine curiosity about the tax, an attempt to start conversation or to gauge my friendliness. I answered the question but gave nothing more. Just waiting to see if he'll initiate any action either legal or social.