The loan wasn't it, we talked about that after she went to the credit union. I don't remember anything specific from 5yrs ago. I can remember her saying that she just doesn't know what direction in life she wants to go. There was no big drama going on, we never did fight. Any suggestions on how to handle her ignoring me now.It's like she going dark on me. Should I not say the first word. If so we probably won't speak at all. What is the best approach now.
