Hello, just a quik rundown. 1 yr. ago W annouced she was leaving our marriage and she was going to pursue a relationship with someone else. She moved in with her sister. I told her after almost three months that if this is what she wants that we should finalize things. Actually "she was with me or without me", because when we did see each other we got along so good. Well she moved back in at the end of Jan. but slept in seperate rooms. Things were slowly improving until her sister moved away in august. She said it was like empty nest syndrome all over again. About 1 mo, ago she annouced she wasn't happy and that it would be better for both of us to end the mariage. Well our plans was for her to buy my half of the house out so I got an appraissl. She shecked with her credit union and now we are doing nothing. I was waiting for her to start the D process.I have been basisically doiing TLR. She doesn't talk to me hardly at all. And walks around like I did something horrible.
Ideas, comments. I believe she is in a depression and MLC.I've been GALing.Trying to get a mind set for D. Problems started almost 5yrs. ago. Thanks.
I was told in piecing that it there would be more traffic here and it didn't sound like my W was ready for piecing. W said also that I deserve someone who would give me the love I deserve(basically) My thread in piecing was "trying to be patient" Thanks sg, maybe you could check out my thread over there.
Well W is acting like an immature teenager, how they don't talk to someone when they are mad at them. When I say something to her her answer is as brief as possible. Sound familier to any of you?
That's not an immature teenager; that's a grown woman who's pissed off at you. She probably couldn't swing the loan from her credit union to buy you out of the house.
What were the problems from 5 years ago when things turned pear shaped?
The loan wasn't it, we talked about that after she went to the credit union. I don't remember anything specific from 5yrs ago. I can remember her saying that she just doesn't know what direction in life she wants to go. There was no big drama going on, we never did fight. Any suggestions on how to handle her ignoring me now.It's like she going dark on me. Should I not say the first word. If so we probably won't speak at all. What is the best approach now.
