Sandi - Help me. How was she saying goodbye? I just don't see it. Isn't validating what I'm supposed to be? What should I have done differently?
Help, please. I don't know how much more of this I can take.
Since you decided to send her that email, guess there's no point in me saying anything. But I will say this much....you didn't say anything "wrong" in the phone conversation. The problem is as old as Adam & Eve. Men and women think differently. Since men don't seem to "get it" about women, that's why women can wrap some of them around the little finger. He's sunk before he even realizes he was anywhere around water!
Don't beat yourself up over the phone conversation. I would say that last email is more important. Now that you have told her that you've set her free......whatcha gonna do? (BTW, don't tell her you've got your ring in your pockett. That's way too weak.)
Don't contact her any more. Do not respond to her when she contacts you. I mean it!
I've got my eye on you and the first time you use some whimpy excuse as to why you responded or contacted.......I'm coming through this computer after you.
Now you've set the two of you free. Start living as if you've dropped the rope.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
