Steve, I agree with you there except I do leave her alone that is what is confusing. if i don't contact her for a week she contacts me berating me about something trivial
I might send her an email like we need to pick a lawyer for the house sale and she comes back with all the reasons she left.
I disagreed with her taking a piece of furniture and got a page long email back about what an a$$ I am with no real reason.