Hi Dudess. I'm glad that you are still following along with my sitch. You give it to me straight.


Originally Posted By: Dudess
I don't think it is at all 'clear' that she was waiting for her L when you spoke with you yesterday as you assume. She asked you if it would automatically renew. I'm guessing that when you said you didn't know, she called her L and L said best to renew the agreement as well.


Yes, perhaps. I know it's mindreading on my part but it seemed logical. Either way it's not a big deal in the grand scheme of things.



Originally Posted By: Dudess
Have you been served mza8, or did you find out about the filing through the court records?


No, I haven't been served. Found out through court records. She filed about two weeks ago. She hasn't said a thing to me about it.


Originally Posted By: Dudess
If the deal about your commission is still in your best financial interest, sign it. If not, due to change in circumstances, then you may need to negotiate something with her.


Nothing has really changed (other than her filing). It's still in my best interest to use my commission which I am going to do anyway regardless of signing her agreement or not. It's also the right thing to do.


Originally Posted By: Dudess
I think it does show that she trusts you in this matter because she signed the listing extension without your signature on the agreement.


Yes, that's what I thought too but wasn't sure if I was reading too much into it. I was sort of surprised to see she signed my document without me signing hers yet.

Thanks Dudess. I'm going to sign it.


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