I did the same thing with my kids future. XW said I was welcome to come inside but I told her I would wait outside. She did not try to invite herself to go trick or treating with us like I though she might. I was prepared to tell her to go home too.

I noticed that there are a lot of fine women in the old neighborhood!

It is getting very hard to stay away from XW completely. Every time she comes to pick up the kids I have to walk the kids out to her for some reason or another. This time D3 was crying because she did not want to go with mommy. I felt so bad for her that I went outside with them. Said very few words to XW.

Tell me all about your lady friend!


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final