See, we get along great. We are civil and friendly to one another,
So just be grateful that you can get along right now. Take it for what it is. A good civil relationship between two people that have kids.
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but something are better left unsaid
Very good way of thinking. How often do we say actions speak louder than words. Add to that, that right now a lot of emotions are in the mix. You never want to react when you are angry or hurt. Kudos to you for sticking to this approach.
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As bad as i didnt want to, I walked over, gave him a halfhearted hug and said thank you and goodbye.
This ^^^^ is some of that anger that you still have. It is normal. I will say I think you could have just said thank you and goodbye – JMO.
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He just cant let go.
Is this ^^^ your problem? No. You worry about Kissak right now.
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Why couldnt he be nice and caring then?
Ah…..this quote tells me that underneath all the anger and hurt is still some real love. I think that is a good thing. Remember, he may have wanted to be nice and caring but he just can’t. Not NOW and maybe NOT ever. For now, stop worrying and focusing on him and stay the course and focus on you. You Kissak have some serious healing to do. You healing should be YOUR first priority.
Chin up girl!
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
