Violin, I don't think women contact men that much (myself excepted!).
I'm finding, older guys contact me, and much much younger guys. Anybody remotely age-appropriate, I've had to contact them. Which is bad, because I have an issue around pursuing unavailable guys, and really need someone to pursue me for a change. But the only guys pursuing me at the moment are the East Coast guy who is 3,000 miles away, and a charming and persistent 27 year old! Yikes.
