Sol, if your H is pulling this on-again off-again thing why don't you file a motion for *him* to show in court to resolve this?
Give him one chance to settle if he doesn't file a motion to go to trial, in and out in a few hours and be done.
I can tell you're pissed, when you see HG you can kick him and tell him you're just making sure he's awake and on his toes.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again