Have you tried engaging? Maybe in your case, totally going dark isn't working. Have you tried going 'dim'?
That is, call her every now and then to see how she's doing. Ask her for coffee to catch up. Small things. You need to establish some kind of positive feeling in her to start the ball rolling.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
