Her anger is good, she's conflicted and she's hurting. This is an opportunity.
Is texting a good method to communicate for you? What's better?
Is she still having the A?
Give us an example of the rants back to you.
We divided up the furniture and she came back after the fact and said she wanted something else. I refused politely and said it should remain as is and the split was fair and equitable (which it was)
She came back and said !!FINE!! and then went on about how she was not a B1tch and how the only thing I should blame her on is leaving and that I never took any responsibility for her leaving etc etc.
I just replied and said
I am not interested in arguing about stuff. Considering your obviously pent up feelings towards me it's probably for the best that you left. I understand that you felt trapped in a marriage you did not want with a person you did not love but you are free now. I understand and accept your reasons without agreeing that it had to go this far. But your feelings are yours and yours alone.
Not sure if this was the right thing to say but i'm tired of it all.
