Hi All, I know this is a recurring theme but I am still having trouble understanding it.My W moved into a new place, I do not initiate any contact with her but occasionally see her as we live in the same area.
There didn't seem like any huge reason for the breakup except a suspicion of A, then supposed confirmation, followed by maybe it was just an A she wanted. I am so confused now i don't know what happened or is happening. I have no interest in finding out either. Investigating when separated = Stalking. There is not too much interaction but what there is is very angry from her side.
Why so angry. I gave her the "if you dont want to be married then feel free to leave" speech. I dont harass her in any form. When i see her i just say Hi and go on my way. When i need to discuss something financial I keep straight to the point and she usually sends back an email ranting at me.
I can tell by her attitude she is VERY angry with me. If you set them free why do they still hold the same anger as if you were pursuing them. Any explanations, have never felt this from ANYONE before. Although it doesn't consume me it does upset me when i see it but I try not to show it.