Thank you for the kind words - and also for the support on the other thread. There doesn't seem to be any openness to different ideas there, which is okay. Not about to try to force anything on folk.

You have clearly done a lot of work on yourself, and in such a short time.

I am curious about the approach being taken by the counselor regarding procrastination, since I have struggled with that at times as well. I am personally averse to taking drugs as well, so I am wondering if a cognitive approach is being taken.

Originally Posted By: flowmom
I was so terrified of losing my STBXH that I didn't take the risks that I should have taken to be true to myself.
Perhaps there might be a connection between this fear and procrastinating in other areas.