Validate it if you want...but don't buy new ones for her! That's the oldest trick in the book. H buys the new toys, and some other guy gets to play with them. No joke - I've read it right here on this forum - several times.
You've read about it, and I have dated those women. Not proud of it, but that's how you learn.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-