WAW,,, wow

[Greek]

SHE did come to me after all and in my room on my terms. With her choice...

I think that is important. It fits with my goals.

I think it is important, too. But I would be concerned, if I were you, that it is of momentary importance to her, until she sees that the storm has passed with you. If she is not made to demonstrate her sincerity - long term sincerity - well, easy come~easy go. You might be dealing with OM2 before long.

Also, you need to be assured of the sincerity, to your core, for that trust to take root. Otherwise, you'll always wonder "Did she come back to me just b/c he dumped her?"

Greek

[Pensacolabroken]

Greek I agree 110%. I will enforce my original boundry. Mc is going to help with that. I have received many texts from her today and she is leading with I miss you and I love you's

[Starsky309]

Greek I agree 110%. I will enforce my original boundry. Mc is going to help with that. I have received many texts from her today and she is leading with I miss you and I love you's

and how are you responding to these?

[Greek]

Greek I agree 110%. I will enforce my original boundry. Mc is going to help with that. I have received many texts from her today and she is leading with I miss you and I love you's

You are too busy to respond to those texts, PB. Texting is low hanging fruit for her. If she can get you at the text level, shoot - she's in there. You require much more than that. Let the texts make you feel good, b/c they should. She's coming around and thanks GOD! Just b/c she sets the table, though, doesn't mean you have to eat. Maybe you are not hungry now.

This is not just about her wanting to come back. It's about YOU getting your thoughts straight on WTF just happened to me?! So you keep the pace such that you can PROCESS this. Don't let her rush you b/c she NEEDS to know it will be OK for her.

When Coach and I put it back together, we both came with what we believed would constitute 'all in'. And it took months, literally, to work through all of that. We STILL work on these issues daily to keep it real, and real good!

Greek

[Coach]

When Coach and I put it back together, we both came with what we believed would constitute 'all in'. And it took months, literally, to work through all of that. We STILL work on these issues daily to keep it real, and real good!

So am I still DBing you are or am I using different skills?

[Greek]

When Coach and I put it back together, we both came with what we believed would constitute 'all in'. And it took months, literally, to work through all of that. We STILL work on these issues daily to keep it real, and real good!

So am I still DBing you are or am I using different skills?

I won't answer that until you tell me why you want to know.

Greek

[Coach]

When Coach and I put it back together, we both came with what we believed would constitute 'all in'. And it took months, literally, to work through all of that. We STILL work on these issues daily to keep it real, and real good!

So am I still DBing you are or am I using different skills?

I won't answer that until you tell me why you want to know.

Greek

C'mon Greek, it's the Socratic Method.

[ShockedOne]

One other thing you don't see mentioned that often, if she has been sexually active with others, she needs a STD screen before you are going to be physical with her again. You need to look out for your own health.

[TimeHeals]

C'mon Greek, it's the Socratic Method

Which, as we learned earlier today, is a euphemism for 'entrapment'.

We will now leave "Sophistry" and return to our normal programming.

[Pensacolabroken]

Greek,

Got it. She told me last night she wants all in. I will remember that about the texts.

I didnt initiate any.

I did reply. Belatedly some where logistic about Son..

Most from where about M talk and her being glad we are going to work on it.

I detect sincerity but I am guarded as I said.

I will not answer any non Son texting.. I am REALLY trying to figure out where I am in the DB process now and what is next.. so I will keep the detaching going until I am certain she is in..