Greek I agree 110%. I will enforce my original boundry. Mc is going to help with that. I have received many texts from her today and she is leading with I miss you and I love you's
You are too busy to respond to those texts, PB. Texting is low hanging fruit for her. If she can get you at the text level, shoot - she's in there. You require much more than that. Let the texts make you feel good, b/c they should. She's coming around and thanks GOD! Just b/c she sets the table, though, doesn't mean you have to eat. Maybe you are not hungry now.
This is not just about her wanting to come back. It's about YOU getting your thoughts straight on WTF just happened to me?! So you keep the pace such that you can PROCESS this. Don't let her rush you b/c she NEEDS to know it will be OK for her.
When Coach and I put it back together, we both came with what we believed would constitute 'all in'. And it took months, literally, to work through all of that. We STILL work on these issues daily to keep it real, and real good!
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