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I meant I am not attracted to younger guys, especially if they have NOT been through marriage/parenting. I was surprised to get a LOT of attention from guys who are roughly 35 years old.

Something to keep in mind is that if you are in your early 40s, many men similar in age to you will not be attracted if they are wanting to have biological children because you will be perceived as being past your childbearing window. I've been surprised by how many men in their 40s and 50s are open to having children (presumably biological) so that definitely is a factor in dating towards LTR once a woman is perceived as being too old to bear children. The different biological realities regarding fertility create a mismatch in age-matching for dating IMO.