Sounds like a good weekend. And smart not to make booze a pain reliever. It's ok to have a bad day, just as much as a good day. Keep busy like you did. Make plans now for next weekend.
I feel like pizza tonight. (random thought) I used to text these random thoughts to my "online" friends. Who says habits can't be broken?
Just stumbled across this quote:
"Forget about al the reasons why something may not work. You only need to find one good reason why it will." Now I just need to figure out what that "something" is that I want to work.
"Forget about al the reasons why something may not work. You only need to find one good reason why it will." Now I just need to figure out what that "something" is that I want to work.
Go look in the mirror, sweetie. When you can look at yourself and know that you are that one good reason, then you've come a very long way. That would be a healthy mental attitude, don't you think?
Don't give up on yourself. Stay focused on making the most of each day. Set small daily goals that will help you feel better as a person.
I'm so glad you are staying here on the board. It is good therapy.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
No sleep last night. I tossed and turned all night. Not even sure why I stayed in bed except I didn't know where to go or what to do. Anxiety, panic, sadness, grief, guilt. Someday I won't feel so bad, right?
I neglected my wife for years, didn't give her love the way she needed and the way I should have. Sometimes when things seem really bleak, I feel like I blew it, my one chance.
The feeling goes away. When it comes, I try and focus on something good in my life, something I'm thankful for, something I DID get right.
It'll get better. Dwell on the good in your life, even if it's a small thing.
Yep. You made a big mistake, that you recognize. Now dust yourself off, and look outside. The sun is still shining, right? One day at a time, one minute at a time. It does get better.
So...one of my dearest friends just talked to my husband's closest friend and she swore she wasn't digging for details. She was just letting this guy say whatever he said without asking questions. She just listened. (I hope she's being honest about that)
She said my husbands friend said that my husband is very angry right now, and that he knows that my husband has every intention of following thru with the divorce, but he would not be surprised if someday my husband and I got remarried.
Of course, I'm getting my hopes up a little. Don't worry, I won't call, text, email or anything like that.
