I like your comments about maintaining the detachment and telling her I am not comfortable with a physical realationship yet. I will say that this evening when I sleep in my own bed and she asks me to come up to her room or vice versa.
Coach, I am asking myself that also.. I see the value in GAL. I also know a transition must occur. SHE did come to me after all and in my room on my terms. With her choice...
I think that is important. It fits with my goals.
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10