Are you ready for the process of reconciling? The tools needed are different than DBing.
I have no idea. I live in world of logic and reason. Living with a WAS seems more like being on an acid trip.
As an aside, I just found out my wife of seventeen years has probably been on meds for a mental health condition (that I didn't know about) for much of our marriage and went off them nearly two years ago. Just when I think it can't get any more f'd up. . . (and she still hasn't told me.)