how long do you do no contact?

[MrBond]

Are you a tolerant and loving person? That is, do you accept certain aspects of him that you may not agree with, but accept them because they are important to him?

Again, what do YOU think makes you attractive to him (not just physical) that's more than just obligation?

I think you haven't been totally honest with working that out. Instead you focus all your attention on the OW and fall short of just calling her a wh*re when all she's doing is attracting your H.

That's the cold hard truth. So what does make you attractive to him?