ALL of you guys are right w/ regards to going slow and I very much appreciate your input.
Originally Posted By: v1olin
There are too many triggers in there for me. She has no clue at all, her head is as empty as it was when she was 14.
This gave me a chuckle, Violin!
Wii, you gave me some good advice. I have not lived w/ stbx in over a year now. That is crazy typing that. It seems like not long ago at all. I need to watch out for myself, first and foremost. I do have a lot on my plate, that is not even a question?
Yesterday I had to make some copies of our house docs and other pertinent info for my L and I felt the tears welling up in my eyes reading all that stuff, and each paper he's served me/sent me. I also found a journal I'd written after he confessed to having slept with someone else and it all came rushing back. I wish that would have never happened. It was like a dagger in my heart. I wish I could just schedule a final hearing for the D already but stbx wants to do all this back & forth w/ suing me re: mortgage.
IR, I do love that song you posted. Soo much. As for things getting "hot and heavy" I have made it clear that is not going to happen. I also realize hardly any men would ever say things are going too "fast." LOL. Yes I remember your long list of women, and one of them was the neighbor, right? Did you ever see her again?
Should I cut things off w/ HG til D is final? Thing is, I do find the time we spend together to be enjoyable. It is nice having someone to hang with after all this time.
It's really yucky that there is no edit button here...
