I don't understand the "making it harder" part. I'm not saying it can't/work, because I just don't know. But it does seem like playing games to me,
Being careful isn't playing games. You know what is playing games? Having an affair, blaming your spouse for the affair, then when the affair falls apart, running to your spouse because you feel needy, but when they're too happy just to be there, you remember you don't really want them and are just saying that, so you dump them all over again.
Not being too easy is about not letting your ego drive everything, not being too happy just to be there (Yay! She now says she wants me. I win, I win, I win!), and taking the time to make sure this is all real because you know you don't deserve to be treated that way.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
