They are not going to want you to hurt, which is that whole martyr crap mentality and aura most LBS wear when they do this.
So...they SEE you hurting and suffering, and think it is in your best interest for you not to suffer, because they don't want to see you suffer.
I had a conversation with my friends and family, the ones who knew, and said,
"Thanks for your advice, but I am maarried, here is what I am going to do, I am DBing (summed up what DBing was) and I am going to need your support in my decision, especially at times when I want to quit. If you cannot support me in this, then we can talk about anything else in the world, but if you keep pushing me to what you want then I'm not going to be around much, because I need to focus on DBing."
It is not my job to convince you to be married, that is your job.
You want to be married?
Be married.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
