Any thoughts?

[HopelessInLove]

So are you saying that D3 will have a loving home half the time? You say you want the world for D! You are thinking emotionally. W as you knew her is gone yes. You need to calm your emotions to better evaluate what is best for you and D3. Work on yourself your D3 will benefit the most with logical thinking.

I want the best for my 3 kids. I have reacted emotionally in sitch, now I am trying undo emotional decisions I thought were right for my kids.
You need to detach from W, there is only pain for you in holding on to a rope which is being riped through your hands.

Don't try and control her let her make her own mistakes it is the only way we can learn.

You are doing good KEM, keep up your faith for you and D.