Can you really detach and be separated if you live under that same roof? I'm striving to do this but its really difficult. It would be so much easier if she was just gone.
But is that something I really want to?
As long as I remain distant and detached does it matter? Does living under the same roof under these conditions improve or degenerate the chances for a possible reconciliation later?
How long does one allow ones WAS to live under that same roof before they put their foot down and say GTFO?
I have the finances now so I'm effectively in control. She can't really cake eat to much at the moment.
