I'm with you guys on this one: having an affair IS most certainly abusive toward your spouse. You don't make excuses for abusers.

I don't see any real difference between, "I'm sorry, Baby, but I wouldn't call you a stupid b*tch if you would just listen to me" and...

"I'm sorry baby, I had an affair because you didn't make me feel special".

Both are utter BS.

People are responsible for their own actions. Period.

M-47,W-40,No kids
D-filed 5/27/2010
Piecing - 10/21/2010
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