Just emailed W:

"You don't need to come to therapy with me next week.

I was not honest with you. I didn't want you to come for closure -- that was never my goal and I led you to believe that it was. I was hoping you would hear something that made a difference in your ability to work towards reconciliation. I see now that's not possible and me being dishonest with my reasons won't help.

To answer your question of the other day: I just put my ring in my pocket.

You're free.

Later this month we should discuss separating out finances."


M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
Home 10/11