"You don't need to come to therapy with me next week.
I was not honest with you. I didn't want you to come for closure -- that was never my goal and I led you to believe that it was. I was hoping you would hear something that made a difference in your ability to work towards reconciliation. I see now that's not possible and me being dishonest with my reasons won't help.
To answer your question of the other day: I just put my ring in my pocket.
You're free.
Later this month we should discuss separating out finances."
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