So this is the email response that I thought about sending in response her email wanting to meet with a Mediator.

Thanks for the update; however, I am not sure why we need to go to a mediator since we have nothing to negotiate…no shared assets or liabilities. Also, I really do not plan to spend any of my own money on this nightmare and I really do not have an interest in seeing you or speaking with you as well. It has been six years this month that this nightmare began for me and you were right stating before you left that I need to start doing things for me that make me happy. Therefore leaving work to see a mediator/lawyer regarding this nightmare is not convenient for me. And if necessary I would prefer anytime after 5:00, which works better for me. Also, FYI ever since I made the decision not transfer to St. Petersburg, (I didn’t want to leave my boys) I have been keeping real busy in the evenings and this week it is really crazy, but a lot of fun! It is refreshing to be able to speak with someone who has the same intellect, class and where I do not have stop the conversation to provide a definition to a word that has more than one consonant. I wish this would have happened two years ago…

I know a little negative emotion in the end, but I thought a good kick in the a$$ when I have been more than cordial throughout this sitch was okay...this time.