Sandi - Help me. How was she saying goodbye? I just don't see it. Isn't validating what I'm supposed to be? What should I have done differently?

Help, please. I don't know how much more of this I can take.

M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
Home 10/11