Through my MC and DB coach about a month and half ago i stopped texting my wife, which has seemed to make little difference. I also started sleeping on the couch and basically stopped talking to her when she was at home because my wife wanted to seperate and needed space and had told me she does not want to be around me, now i am getting that i dont talk to her and never ask her to do anything.
About three months ago i was out at lunch with my friends and saw this guy was in town, my wife was suppose to go out that night and i confonted him, he said they were friends and nothing happened and he was not a home wrecker, i had told my wife if i ever saw him i would kill him, just me being mad but not serious. I actually talked to him calmly and told him that he and my wife had my life a living hell.
I may have not been everything to my wife but i think i have done more than most men do in a marriage, we equally shared responsibilites in the household and with our kids, i would clean house, pick up, do dishes, laundry, kids baths etc. I did not lounge around on weekends because i dont watch sports, i was there year round until hunting season which i only went one day a weekend for about three months usually getting home by 1:00pm the past two years. My wife had said something a couple years back about it and i told her i was going to go every weekend, this year i told her i was selfish and would not go every weekend.
Last night she was in our bed i decided to go in there and watch TV, she was on FB and texting the whole time, so i got up and told her i was going to lay on the couch and if she wanted me to sleep in the bed with her she could come tell me when she was ready to go to sleep, dont know if she ever came out there.
