* a handsome face with a lot of character (not generic attractiveness)
* a casual fully clothed full body shot to confirm self-description of body type
* no bitterness about dating, women, exes, etc (you'd be surprised how common this is)
* shows some evidence of passion (often expressed through strong interests or career passion -- but not necessary to spell out career exactly).
* willing to get with the program -- you're on an online dating site...no one likes having to describe and sell themselves but that's part of the deal so don't waste your profile bandwidth on that
* most men are probably not as boring as they come off in their profiles. get feedback from people who know you IRL!
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.