You're not done. Neither is she. And this isn't about HIM,ok? Not even about her.
All about YOU and D3 now.
And yes, lots of people value marriage. And I'm guessing you do or you wouldn't be here. That's good. Me, too.
Question- How did you show how much you value it? That's an internal question for YOU. And it's not about blame, ok? It's about improving KEM for the future. That's your internal homework question.
There will be plenty dropping by here with WHAT to do physically at this point so you'll be busy.
-Protecting yourself financially -Protecting the rights of your daighter -packing her stuff
You know. "Tactical" stuff.
The sooner you start looking at KEM and where you veered of YOUR path (passive aggressive, resentment, taking for granted, losing sight of YOUR aspirations, etc) the sooner you'll be able to detach from her AND the emotional roller coaster rise that IS coming. And the sooner the tactical stuff will have a lasting impact as it will come from the REAL KEM. Not the broken KEM that is posting now. Do you remember THAT KEM?
The sh)tstorm is right in front of you. You can't stay put- it's moving toward you. There is NO around over or under. It's through. ONLY through.
