SHould I say I love you?

[hurtinhartford]

[JudoScott]

trick or treating went ok we had a good time shes going to a party later.

[JudoScott]

She got back at 430am

I didn't say anything when I got up. She was in a good mood. I didn't ask any question just got ready for my day and treated her like a room mate.

[JudoScott]

Been trying hard to calm my mind and detach today. Its been a little rough but its getting easier. Going to dinner with a old friend tonight

[hurtinhartford]

Judo,

You sound good today. It takes time and you will have your ups and downs, but over time it will get better. Have you thought about GAL activities? I took some acting classes and not because I want to act, but it was challenging and it did help me with my profession where I do a lot of public speaking. I also started to do a little rock climbing...something I always wanted to do, but never had a chance due to time.

[JudoScott]

Yea I have a list in my journal.
Friends, buddhism studies, work out (already do this), clothes, music, more time with son.

[MrBond]

You're doing the right thing. Not telling her where you were isn't manipulative. It's doing what you want to when YOU want to. She was fishing.

[JudoScott]

[censored] I am disappointed in myself. I started snooping some for no reason. WTF.

[pinhead]

[censored] I am disappointed in myself. I started snooping some for no reason. WTF.

You snooped because of insecurity. Snooping will not provide you with security.

[JudoScott]

Right I want to feel in control and I do for a few seconds when I snoop but after I reflect on it I know I am not really.