Well helloooo again.

Are you done rocked? Umm, depends on how you define done I guess.

I would say that even if you reconcile, be it the first time, or "second" time round, or whatever, you ARE done. Done with the M that had existed before, done with letting your own happiness be a hostage to someone else's madness.

Good that you are letting him work at things now. He has manning up to do. Still, don't feel pressured to slam shut any doors that you don't have to. You don't have to walk through them, take your time.

And what's this about a party? :P


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.