Newmama, you need an attractive body shot with your head. The number one complaint that men have about dating sites is that women's bodies are not as advertised so I think that a body shot is a must, with a note saying that it's a recent photo.
Congrats on reaching your goal weight!! That is so awesome. You don't need to worry about your tummy. When the attraction is there that stuff doesn't matter. Believe me, I'm a lot older than you. Two babies, lack of fitness, and gravity have taken their toll, but I haven't heard any complaints . I think that men most look at 1. overall weight and 2. proportions. So you have nothing to worry about . Only perfectionists will get hung up on firmness IMO. I find that men assume that I'm a lot fitter than I am because I'm at a good weight for me. I have a slightly active lifestyle but I lost weight through calorie counting, not exercise.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. I think that men most look at 1. overall weight and 2. proportions. So you have nothing to worry about 
. Only perfectionists will get hung up on firmness IMO. I find that men assume that I'm a lot fitter than I am because I'm at a good weight for me. I have a slightly active lifestyle but I lost weight through calorie counting, not exercise.