Yup...this was a good read. Saw myself all over in it. But I also realized these things shortly after H left, and I took a long,hard look at not just his actions, but my own. Hindsight and all that.

Hope you post more. Maybe some newbies will read and believe that this possible painful discovery about their own actions in their marriage can be worked on...to better their own lives, and possibly make a difference in their damaged relationship.

Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings, we simply continue to fly...on a broomstick. We are flexible