Sounds like a great party R. My invitation must've gotten lost in the mail- I'm sure
Well that explains why I waited at the door foreeeeeevvvverrrr and no Romeo! LOL
No worries... you can still attend my virtual party when I throw it.
Originally Posted By: ImprovedRomeo
So the question is are you really done with him? Like if he became who he once was that made you fall for him is there a chance? If yes then tell him, if and only if he can be what he was like back then there maybe a chance. If he's genuine in his efforts then you can guide him, start slow by dating while living apart, do counseling etc. However, if you don't want him back even he made the changes then tell him you're done and he should move on.
Well... I don't know if this answers the question of whether I am done... but I have ZERO interest in guiding him, dating him etc. When my phone goes off and it is him, I cringe. When I see him I can't wait til he is gone. Is that done? Or is it just that I finally reached my limit?
I can't think of him being who I fell for... he was 19 when we met. So long ago....
So odd... when I loved him very deeply for over twenty years. Now, I feel nothing.
Yet... there is twenty years and three kids and what was once a good M. That's why I keep telling him to work on him.
Could I love him again if those changes were made? I don't know because my big issue is trust and it has been damaged so badly.
So give me your feedback folks... does this mean I am done?
I am trying to see my IC and she is booked up! Grrr
