There is OM still. She shut herself out of everyone we knows life, and im not exagerating. She ignored everyone and for 7 months OM and his circle of friends were her life. She is afraid to come home and things end up being the same as before and us not getting along and ending up back at square one on the kids more so then each other. The issue with MC is I wont back down until she moves else where. She has no money as she quite her job and asked to come home. She works with OM, and she thought I would let her come home right then. I didnt, and she was able to get a place to stay for a week then she had no where else to go.
She acknowledges that I have changed, she likes spending time with me, she says I can have a hug when ever I want. She misses me, I have been her best friend for 20 years, but she wont take the leap and just leave OM.
