Just wanted to get an update on my sitch and see if anyone has any advice.
It is my birthday and my wife and I have been dark for two weeks. Prior to that, we were amicably discussing a divorce settlement and we actually were really agreeable and good to one another. We even laughed a bit and conversed about other things.
Well, I hadn't expected to hear from my wife any time soon and figured any time gone dark, maybe she's re-considering. But yesterday she calls me and asks to come over. I was a bit paranoid, so I asked why. She said, "well, someone has a birthday so they shouldn't be asking that question."
She came over and gave me a cake. Blew my mind. There are no knives or anything in it. :P We had a very pleasant conversation (no R talk) where I tried to be an active listener best I could. She did say a few things about the dishes (like a better way to split them up) but no other real divorce talk. She even said I looked good and that I was funny.
Not sure what to make of all of this. I'm going to continue to GAL until she contacts me again. Any ideas/suggestions? Anyone been in a similar sitch?
