She doesnt understand that I wont do anything as long as she is with the OM. She says if he wasnt in the picture she would be more receptive to me. She wants to come home but she is afraid. I need help. She has turned away from her family and her friends. Her social group involves friends with OM.
It's an old WAW trick. She goes to brother and tries to make you sound like the bad guy. She's "afraid"? Oh please! That is pure b.s.
Yeah, I agree that she would be more "receptive" to you if OM wasn't in the picture.....but he is, isn't he? She wants her cake!
Don't accept this. Don't allow the pressure to be put on you. She screwed up! She has a choice to make. You won't live in an open M. Right?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
