Intimacy and affection. She has always been a little short in that department.
Change your perspective. What is it she needs to really feel comfortable, loved, relaxed, free and vunerable?
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
