And remember that this OM business is like an addiction. If he's dumped her - or even if she's dumped him - there will be withdrawl (sobbing, mood swings, spew, melancholy, despair) until the chemicals in her brain balance out again. You must be an immovable wall as far as your boundary is concerned. "W, I want our M, but I will not settle for anything less than what I said: full transparency, you 'all in' our M, counseling together so we can work on our weak areas." No emotion. No anger. No punishments. Just your boundary and her choices.
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